My best friend really creeped me out...or am I overreacting?
Question Posted Sunday July 11 2010, 6:42 am
I haven't been answering my best friend's texts or calls since what she did the other day but I might be overreacting so will you please tell me if I think I should've gotten creeped out by this?
We were at the mall and went in to use the bathroom, and we both went in the same stall. I guess they had just cleaned the bathrooms because for some odd reason the toilet seat was up in the women's bathroom. Since it was a women's bathroom I didn't check and just sat down. My butt fell into the water, and then I started a tough time getting back up because I was too short to get my feet on the floor from that position and also my butt was big enough it kinda slightly wedged into the bowl. It was a nightmare! Then rather than helping me, she turned around, pulled her skirt up a little and starting making jokes about using the toilet on me!
That really, really, really gave me the creeps and she did eventually help me out of there...but only after she laughed at me a while, took a couple of phone camera pics of me in my predicament and texted the pics to our friends. So first she was creepy in my opinion, then she was really insensitive, I think. Do you think I am overreacting or being unreasonable about this?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship? Gabiie answered Sunday July 11 2010, 7:30 pm: hey
although i have always been the one to say ignoring someone is wrong, in this case i don't think its an over reaction.
you say shes your best friend then y would she take photos and send it to other people it was embarresing enough?
i beleieve you should still act poliet around her, dont act as if you hate her, just keep your carm. go up to her and say something, be direct. then simply walk away. if shes a good friend she'll say sorry.
i can see why you got the creeps dont worry, but she just took it as a joke. is she lesbian or "experimented" with someone befor, that kind of made it more creepier for you.???
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