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why are u transferring away from me?!?!?!?
15 year old female
alrite so one of my best guy friends is transferring out of my h.s. and he never told me, not once. we shared secrets and were really close. he told me everything and never lied, so i thought he would share this too, but he never did. one of my other friends told me and was shocked that i didn't know. was he ever planning on telling me he was transferring or did he think i wouldn't notice? should i try and talk to him about this? PLEASE HELP!!!
thanks :)
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I agree with Chakra, but there is one other possibility that Chakra left out. Maybe he likes you (In more of a friendly way) and he just didn't know how to tell you because he was afraid to hurt you and that he might have been trying to think of how to tell you, or, he might have been waiting for the right moment, or, he didn't want to tell you until like a week or two before he left so it wouldn't make thing somewhat awkward between you two while he was still there so you could just enjoy the time you spend together and not obsess over that he's going to be leaving soon.
Well thats just my two cents, i hope this helped (:
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Yes, you have to talk to him about this before he goes because he is the only person that can give you the answers you need.
No one here or non of your friends can tell you why he didn't say anything to you, or if he was ever going to tell you.
It could be that he thought you knew already from other friends, or he doesn't want to make a big deal about it.
Either way, just talk to him about it, not in an angry way because its not personal, just in a casual way.
You'll regret it and be always wondering if you don't find the answers you need x
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