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Bisexual: Am I confused? Or Do I just have to get used to it?
Okay. So I am a male. I believe I am Bisexual. Theres this guy I've been talking to and me and my girlfriend after 3 years broke up yesterday. So today I'm with this guy and we kiss. But it felt really awkward. Am I confused? Or Do I just have to get used to it after a few times? Maybe it was shock? I know I like him... but its odd?
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In my opinion, I think when people are confused about what they stand for or what they represent, they quickly try to find a label. (Bi, Gay, Les, Ect.) Labeling oneself is a way to feel like you belong to something. Like you're supported by a group. You don't HAVE to label your sexuality...who knows, you could be the guy who is sexually attracted to men, but isn't emotionally attracted. Or vice versa.
I'm sure it did feel awkward kissing your guy friend...but after dating a girl for three years, that is totally understandable. Try not to stress so much about this right now, even though it may be difficult. Keep being open-minded. Hang out with girls, guys, whoever you wish. In time, you will realize who you feel more comfortable around, & who makes you happier.
It all will change over time; your views, your thoughts on sexuality, and your feelings. So for now, go with the flow :)
Hope this helped & good luck! (:
-Kristen
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