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best friends and love
okay, so i have a best friend and weve been best friends since the beginning of the school year, then last month we started going out but then we broke up over some stupid mistake, then after that we fought constantly for like 2-3 weeks. they just started acting normal again and theyve started flirting with me and stuff again, i love him soo much and weve been having amazing times lately, but were not officially going out, there is another girl in the picture i dont know anything about her but i do know they like each other, but this girl is about 4 years older. im also leaving for vacation next week and i really dont wanna leave them behind, ill be over seas for a month, he said hell miss me alot and we will talk everyday and stuff but idk, just need some help on how to get him back.
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Hey :) Thanks for coming to me..I realllyy hope I can help, I promise I'll try my hardest :)
Anyway, have you talked to your best friend yet about how you feel? I think the best thing is just to be honest with him..maybe something along the lines of: "Hey I know there's something between you and ___girl__ and I just want to know what's going on with you two. I still really like you, but I don't want to be led on if it's not going anywhere." I know it's easier said than done, but you really should talk to him and see how he feels. That's the best way to try and get him back..and don't feel like you have to compete with this girl for him; because honestly, if he still has the same feelings for you as you do for him, there's no competition at all :) Talk to him and see where things go from there. If you're meant to be with him, it'll all work out..I absolutely promise you that. and if not well then, it was his loss in letting you go in the first place. :) So I suggest you talk to him about how you feel and see where it goes from there. After you talk to him, if you want to you can come back on here and let me know how it went and if you need any advice from there..and if you already talked to him let me know and we'll see what to do :) Good luck with everything. I wish you the best..and I really hope this helped. Make sure you talk to him-especially before vacation! Even if it doesn't go the way you want it to, at least you won't be wondering for the whole month, and you won't regret not taking the chance. Have a fun and safe trip! and I'm always here if you need anything<3
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