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Ok so I lost my virginity to my boyfriend last week, he knew I was a virgin so we took it slow. I was not drunk but we had both had a couple of drinks, I was not as nervous about having sex then. It did hurt a bit but because it was slow it felt good. Yes he wore a condom and yes I am on birth control. The problem is we tried to have sex again yesterday and he couldn't get it in, I think it's because i'm more nervous??? what do you think and what can I do? do you think it could be because I was not as turned on as the time before? Thanks!
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It's definately just nerves. Try to relax.
I'm not saying to drink, but alcohol generaly does cause you to relax, and certain...areas to loosen up. They sell gels and lubricants as well if nothing else works.
Hope this helps!
--Cameron
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It was probably just nerves. When you're tense, things tighten up. Try to relax.
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Maybe try doing differnet things before having sex to try and get turned on. Also you said you had couple of drinks maybe that was the reason you werent as nervoous im not saying to drink. But you have to also know it's barley your second time having sex of course your going to be nervous.
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