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my boyfriend is acting differen
so me and my boyfriend have been together on n off for 4 yrs he had a baby and is not with his bm no more so now that were together again we been happy for like 2 days then he starts acting different kinda distant and we had sex he kinda came 2 in like 10 min i feel as if doesnt want to be with me please help
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i think he is nervous && u 2 should wait on the sex because his fear miqht just be that he doesnt want to have to have 2 kids. . .&& if your cool with being stepmommy then tell him so he would know - communication is key !
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There are a lot of flaws in this situation, girl.
Look at what you wrote. Read it over and over.
First of all, is this good for your life?
And second, are you honestly happy with how everything has played out? Is this good for you?
It could be one of two things.. He could be having an off day. Talk about it. Easy as that.
Or, he could be realizing what has happened. He HAS HAD A BABY WITH A WOMAN HE'S NO LONGER WITH. That's another child in this world, who will probably end up with a missing father. 'Babymamas' are not a GOOD thing. And probably not an OKAY thing, either.
Does he have any interest in the child? At all? Do you have any?
If you're going to be serious with him, the child is going to be a part of it.. I've gone without my father for years, and it sucks. Just encourage him to be in the kids' life if the bm is okay with it.
This doesn't sound good to you, of course. But think about it, for the baby's well-being..
2 days isn't enough time to see if you're completely happy together again.
If you have questions about how he feels, it's as easy as talking about it.
Not fighting or arguing. Talking.
Communication can solve most anything, or better the circumstances. Most of us are either nervous or oblivious to it though.
Just bring it up.
If you become steady and serious again.. Please, for god's sake, talk about the kid.
Babies aren't a simple little thing you can just shrug off, and treat like a piece of furniture.
It takes a lot to raise them in a healthy, functional environment. Make it happen, or you could possibly be a negative part of that kid's future.
Please do something about this.
It's more serious than you treat it.
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