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Regarding another Suicide question...
Speaking about suicide, I am going through the same phase. I tried medication but made me feel worse, so I decided to quit and stick to god and some alternative ways to deal with depression. So far I am stuck in a situation that I don`t know where I am. I can`t do any job, my family needs me, but I feel so useless that the only solution that comes to my mind is getting rid of all this pain. Some people are good giving advice about not taking life away, but I think they have no clue how strong it can be what you have to bear inside, so it`s easy to say look for God, do this or that. I think I have given too many fights in this life, and If I choose at the end such a wrong election, It wouldn`t be because I just quit at the first attemp and decided to dye. It`s because I find no sense after trying almost everything. I know it`s selfish, stupid or bad, but every human being does his best to stand still against odds and overcome them, but sometimes they just simply make life miserable. What will happen after death, I think only God will be able to judge according to our individual conciousness. He knows the heart of everyone.
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I don't know what your asking, is it for someone to give you the "ok" to end your life? Nobody's going to do that. Im not the best advice giver and what i have to say probably isnt going to change your mind. It seems like you've done a lot of thinking about this. But im still going to say it because i KNOW suicide isnt what you should do.
You've been given a life, you might believe it was from god or your parents or whatever but it doesn't matter which it really is. In this life you grow, mature, see things differently, and above all experience things and make relationships. Im 17 years old and i can't really say i've had a hard life. I'm the person who's parents believed in him no matter what it was he wanted to do, not once doubting him. I set out to do a lot of things and accomplished them, and now im facing what is suppose to be my toughest. Becoming a surgeon.
Im going to be a surgeon for so many reasons i cannot possibly list them here but these are what relate to your question.
.Things happen to people that don't deserve it (One of the reasons i don't believe in a god, thats a whole other conversation) and im going to do whatever it is that i can to give those people what they do deserve.
.You speak of pain, one of the things you would like to really no longer feel. I've felt pain and thats another reason, im going to do whatever i can to keep pain from happening. The pain of losing a loved one.
. And the most important. People die before they get to experience what they want and do what they've always wanted to do. Im going to spend every day doing my best to keep that from happening, because that is everything.
Living on this earth is everything because it is ALL that we know 100%. Just like me i want you to make the best out of it, just as if it was the only life you will ever have. To climb out of that hole you've been in for a while.
I really hope you decide to continue your life here, and if you have any more questions feel free to ask
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