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My girlfriend doesnt see the way he really is.
Ok well i know this seems far fetched, but in three years i could be married. My girl friend brought up living arrangements like where we would live and so on. Her dad and mom are divorced and are originally from louisiana and her dad recently moved to east texas and doesnt want to have anything to do with her. Her mom lives in central texas where my family and i live. Her parents had a conflict because my girl friend wanted to live with her dad instead with her mom. The arrangement only lasted a few months before turning ugly and her step mom and her dad kicked her out. She hardly has ever seen her dad or he makes excuses as to why he can never see her and tries to pay her off. She made the comment where she would like to live within 2 hours of her dad and her dad's louisiana family. If her dad doesn't want her and she still wants to see him why does she try to seek him? Am i being inconsiderate of her by trying not to move their? The rest of the dads family that resides in louisiana will they still want to see her? I have not met any of my girl friends extended family yet. What should i do? I'm trying to show her the light that her family she sees doesnt exist. Please help. Im 19 and male
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sit her down and talk to her try making her see what you see and if she doesnt understand and you feel that you just cant be a part of all this drama then maybe she isnt right for you because this seems like a small issue now but it could get bigger and could cause drifts between you two because it could be that you see things differently then she does and she will start to feel like you dont understand her and basically it will be complicated just think things through before getting into marriage.
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