so i have this person who was kinda my best friend but she always pissed me off a little, like shes very uptight and like to put people down and say things just for the sake of making herself seen cool, and she thinks shes the shit and really words cant express my anger. but anyways, while we were friend no one else really liked her and would always ask me like "why do u hang out with her?" and now i just had enough of her and ive done a pretty good job of staying away from her, but now everyone likes her. like its crazy how popular shes become. but the thing is that now she just bothers me so much that i feel uncomfortable being around her because she always trys to put me down and w/e...but its killing me that people like her now. what do i do?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship? sunshine1232 answered Saturday June 12 2010, 10:03 am: I think you need to tell the truth and be straight
forward with her say the way she is treating you is bothering you and you don't deserve to be treated that way much less anyone elese and if she's going to continue to treat you the way she does then you'd like it if she wasn't around you seeing as she's making you feel uncomfortable don't sugar coat what you say hopefully for your sake she'll get the hint and leave you alone stand up for yourself and defend yourself you should never allow anyone to push you around and that includes her make her realize your serious so she doesn't take what you say as a joke and for those people who like her they'll like her until she starts saying mean things about them and they see for themselves how she truely acts towards others and towards themselves they won't like her or want to be around her anymore after that happens(: [ sunshine1232's advice column | Ask sunshine1232 A Question ]
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