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Bothering Me For So Long
I read what you said about the dog licking the girl's vagina question and thought maybe you could help me. Around 5 to 4 years ago, when I was 12 I let my dog lick my penis twice. I havent done it since then and have deeply regretted it since then. It's recently been plagueing my head because I have this close friend who I care for a lot and whenever she says that I'm amazing and unique I feel bad because what if she knew I did that? Should I feel bad for having her think I'm such a great person even though I did that? Or since it happened years ago it shouldnt matter? I'm a completely different and more mature and wiser person, so should I care about who I am now or what I did? Is she close friends with a freak? Should I be arrested for having done it? She's told me before that she doesnt care about anything I've done and that its not important to her, but everytime she compliments me, I feel guilty. Please help and please answer each question if you can.
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When I was twelve I got tanked and fell off the roof of a barn topless onto a rabbit hutch.
And what I mean to say by telling you that story is: Shit Happens.
We do dumb stuff as kids. Stupid stuff we would never do again, and that has no bearing at all on the people we grow up to be.
Sure, we can feel guilty about it, but we can't actually be held responsible for mistakes we made when we were so young we barely understood what we were doing. People get this about kids. No one would have arrested you for what happened, and honestly, most people would be grossed out if you told them, but probably also wise enough to recognize that they also did stupid shit when they were twelve and that they have grown and changed and learned since then.
Let it go. You've paid the penalty and punished yourself enough. Today, you ARE the awesome person she thinks you are. Something that happened for a few seconds a few years ago doesn't have the power to change that.
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