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Good Idea?
I'm having issues at school and because I go to a catholic school we have a Chaplain. And we never talk or anything but I'm thinking of just writing a letter to himand sharing my problems to him. Do you think that's a good idea?
I don't know if he can do anything but many students share secrets with him and he's very trustworthy I hear, but I'm just hoping a tiny bit that he might be able to help me out.
But I'll feel so embarrased if he gets the principal or brings up the whole issue in our assembly in two weeks. The issue is bullying/racism.
And I chose a letter because people write leters and rip/burn them up to cheer them up but I don't see the point in wasting paper and want to send him the letter (sip under the door). But I'm just not quite sure (I always have problems deciding).
So should I send him the letter ro no? Maybe sign it anonymously?
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If you feel more comfortable sending him a letter than speaking to him personally then that's absolutely fine.
However, as the issue concerned is quite serious, I think it's important that you let him know who you are so he can help you sort things out. If they do decide to bring it up in assembly I doubt he or the principal will mention your name, especially if you ask them not to.
Please do not be scared of bullies. If you are too scared to seek help, then they have won. Racism is an incredibly serious and unpleasant matter and it needs to be dealt with. Even if you decide not to send the letter, please be brave and speak to someone.
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