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A complicated Boy!
So, to make this short there is this boy who my friend dated while ago, prolly over 5 months ago. She got over him, and she now has a boyfriend. Well, her ex, "Paul" and I have been talking quite a bit, and have been harassing each other for a long time. We both decided that we didn't want eachother, and that we were just friends because ALL of our friends said that we acted like we were dating. So, I went over to his house, and he and I kissed, and it was like a fire was lite in my stomach! I was in a state of euphoria for about 2 days after we kissed, and it was just amazing. He agreed and said that it was equally as amazing. Now here is the hard part, he keeps going all weird. Like, not talking to me and acts like he wants nothing to do with me. We dated for a day, and he said he couldn't do it becuase he was still in love with my friend, his recent ex. So I said, fine I respect that, and then he said he really likes me, so we are "complicated". He keeps wanting sexual things, to which I say NO, and he is persistant! Its annoying, but I like him SO much I dunno what to do. Do I just wait and go with the flow? Or do I assume he just wants me for sex? If you need anymore info, just comment and I will fill in any holes! Thanks!
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Ok I went through the same thing recently so I know how it's going to end up and it's not good! I betrayed my friend for a BOY! In the end all he wanted was sex and I realized I made the biggest mistake because I messed up a great friendship with my friend for a guy who just wanted sex. My advice to you is to leave him alone completely! Even if your friend is over him it's still not right to be messing around with her ex because she is your friend! Just trust me on this one because if you continue to mess around with this guy you will get a bad name and your feelings with get hurt. If you need more advice just write back. I wanted to give you this advice because I don't want this happening to anybody else because that was a painful experience!
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In my oppinion Lilz is right. He claims to be in love with your friend still so he doesn't want to date you but he wants to do sexual stuff with you? That doesn't make no sense. If he still loves your friend he shouldn't want to do that stuff with you. So Basically i'm sayin he's just trying to use you. I understand that you really like him but it might be best to stay away from him. It's good to know that you're saying no to the sexual stuff. Good job! Goodluck on everything
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The way your explaining things are very clear that he only wants you for sex. He doesn't wan't to be in a relationship but he want you for sexual things. The kiss was nice but not after the fact.
Lillian
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