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pleeeeeeeeeeeeease help!!! im desperate
13/f
I need help. I am so confused and dnt kno wat to do. I currently have 2questions up and this will be the third on this guy I like. His name is David. We've been best frends since 4th grade. I KNO for a fact that he likes me more than a frend bc he asked me out at the beginning of 6th grade. I Tod him no that I wasn't allowed. Wen I have had a bf befor.
So now he thinks I'm not alowed. Then we always txt each
other perverted things. Like me /"did you finish ur egg
project."/ him /"not even close"/ me /"urgunna get an F"/ him
/"ya an F in doing you"/. Then I walk home with him after
skul. I also go over to his house all the time bc we live
3houses away. I like him sooooooooooooo much. And he
knows I like him bc I Tod him in a txt. Butwen he asked me
y I liked him I told him bc he is funny. And he said he likes
me bc I'm funny and good l looking. His exact words. But I want him to ask me out so badly. But there a problem. My mom knows I lik him and she dosnt think that dating your nabor is very smart. And if we do become bf gf she wnt allow me overto his house bc shell think things are happening. So if we do goout I'll haveto hide itfrom her which will be very hard. Bc I tell her everything. So pls help me. And how do I ask him out. Thankyou in advance.
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well your mum should e like your best friend who you can tell everything to, she is older and wiser. she is your support system when no one else will be there for you. so let her in, she only loves and cares for you. she wants you to have a great future, she wants you not to have regrets. imagine if she didn't care and let you go over Davids house?
things happens, especially at a young age . as for David don't hide him, guys that are willing to do that are not your kind of guy. slow down on all the sex talk baby girl you still are 13 and so young! keep your mind and head pure. but, if you still want to ask him . hint to him if your parents have allowed you to date. tell him there are no barriers now and then he will ask you out!
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Alright Well I can tell that you two really care about each other and I really think you guys should go for it. Not telling your parents is really hard to do though, and if your mom does find out about it it could cause some very bad trust issues. :/ She might force u guys to break up? You don't want that. Talk to your mom about dating him, and that she can trust you not to do anything. Compromise on something, be honest with her tell her the way you feel. Don't hide it from your mother? Ok.
To ask him out,just take a deep breathe and ask him you've been friends for so long it shouldn't be that hard XD OR text or something..in person would be better.
Hope I helped!
Emily <3
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