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I think my best friend is in love with me
19/f. I've known my best friend since fourth grade. But, I didn't really become friends with her until high school. i'm not mean or picky about people, but she just kind of hid away in her own corner and thoughts, so we never really started talking till later on. but, sophmore year we became really good friends. she knows my life story, literally. but, during senior year i started getting these really weird e-mails from a girl (a fake account, obviously) saying that she went to my school and that she was in love with me. i thought it was a joke but the person was describing my class schedule, the way my bookbag looked and stuff. so, obviously, it was a real person in my class. i started to suspect it might have been her because she was never with me during the time when the e-mail was sent. i thought maybe i was just becoming paranoid. by the way, i'm NOT a lesbian. more like a homophobic. no offense to anyone who is a lesbian. I'm not like against you as people, i'm just not into girls, that's all. so, it blew away and after graduation i sent them an e-mail asking them who it was. and they said it was my ex-best friend (before i became friends with this girl. we never had a fight or anything, she just kind of found new friends). So, I thought that was weird. I let it go. Then, I got a formspring account (this is like months or years later). I'm still friends with the girl. We are in college together. By this time, I had forgotten all about the creepy e-mails because I already left that school. For those of you don't know, formspring is just a social network where you can leave anonymous messages to people. i've been getting messages from people saying that they were in love with me. I kept getting them on the same days that i was seeing my ex, who i am still in love with, and we are fliriting again. so, i was positive it was him. yesturday, i went with her to dinner after class. i get a message on formspring saying i had fun having dinner with you i felt special. with a wink. the wink was the same as all of the other ones from the i love you messages. it was kind of weird and it had a space in between. you could tell it was the same person. it's weird tho because i know she has a boyfriend and that she's still in love with her ex boyfriend. she's not a full blown lesbian but could she be bi? if she is, i got to get away from her. i can't let her jeopardize things between me and my guy. who knows if she was the reason why we broke up in the first place and what kind of rumors she has been spreading about me? help please! what am i suppose to do.. just tell a friend of 10 years... sorry i can't talk to you anymore because i SUSPECT ur bi?! obviously not. but this is already too much for me. help me please.
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confront her about. give her a chance to tell her side. you need to tell her you dont feel that way and its getting creepy. you should still be friends but just not as close. that way you can keep your friendship and she wont have any "good" times to email you about. as you become more distant the emails will cease.
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