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Boyfriend trouble
My boyfriend and I really love each other. But he lied to me and its about something serious and i'm not really sure how to handle the situation. I asked him if he's ever been married before he said no, so then i asked if he's ever been engaged and he told me twice. That kinda threw me off since I have never been married or engaged before but I still decided to give things a shot. That was back when we were first started getting to know each other. So the other day we were talking and the subject just came up again and this time he said he's been engaged once. So I was like how come back before you told me twice and now your switching stories on me. Now your saying you werent engaged with that girl, so then who was it really. And we were going back and forth when he finally decided to admit that it was twice. And said it was a totally different girl that he didnt tell me about before. So I asked him why he lied to me. And he said its a very long story its very deep etc. Then he said are you really curious, and he sent me a photo of the girl. I said wow so you still have a photo of her on your pc. He said yes, I do. Then he said she got married and left me. He said what are you going to leave me too. And he changed the subject like that. He's like I told you all this because your important to me blah blah. So i'm still like why did you lie to me and why do you still have her photo in your pc. This was the next day and he said i deleted it. If you want check my pc. And he's like your always watching me and scanning me. You dont trust me. And now i'm wondering if I should give him some credit. But i feel like i cant believe him as much as i used to. And he knows it too, he says i feel like whatever i say to you- you think its a lie and it hurts me. What should i do? Please help
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I think you should give him the benefit of the doubt he made a mistake by lieing to you he isn't perfect & neither are you i don't think he purposely meant to hurt you or did it intentionally seeing as he said your important to him & he probably meant it part of being in a relationship with someone is being able to trust them without trust the relationship won't get very far listen to yourself & give him credit he deserves some he's already been through enough with the marriage & him being left alone he doesn't need you abandoning him believe what he says otherwise you'll continue to hurt him he could of kept the whole marriage thing to himself but instead he chose to tell you even though he lied he made a mistake he deleted the picture which he could of kept on his computer but didn't he also showed it to you so i think you should believe him otherwise you'll continue to hurt him & i'm sure you don't want that(:
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