Boys don't like me. Well i'm pretty sure they don't. None have ever asked me out and friends tell me i'm pretty but then why don't i have a boyfriend? is it because i don't know how to flirt? i've never even had a first kiss or anything. whats wrong with me? i'm 16 .
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? duudee_advicer answered Wednesday May 26 2010, 5:06 pm: I'd say a lot of boys just don't have a clue. I have a bunch of friends with this problem. My only suggestion? Start being outgoing! Talk to people, learn to start up conversation and keep it going. Start talking to guys. It doesn't even have to be guys you're interested in, just start talking to a range of people to get your bearings. You can google flirting tips and get hundreds of helpful hints. Pick out a few and test them out on a guy. When you become comfortable with a flirty attitude, go for a guy that you are interested in! If he sees you're interested in him, he's more likely to ask you out. Don't ever be afraid to ask a guy to hang out. Stuff like first kisses don't happen at school, so you've got to get that one-on-one or even group time outside of school with him! The worst a guy can do when you ask him out is say 'no.' Believe me, it'll happen. It happens to everyone. But pick your pride up, smile, and just keep talking to people. Don't rush things just so you can say that you've had your first kiss or your first time or whatever. Take things slow, stay outgoing, and think positive :) [ duudee_advicer's advice column | Ask duudee_advicer A Question ]
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