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BOY DRAMAS :/


Question Posted Saturday May 8 2010, 3:13 am

f/14. recently (within the last week or so)ive been feeling really down and i cant help but feeling depressed. When i go to school i get bagged out and people take my stuff on purpose just to get me annoyed or will make rude remarks and its really getting to me now. i dont want to go to school anymore and i used to enjoy going to school and catching up with my friends, but the boys (and some girls) are really getting on my nerves. in class i feel like im the loser of the class because its like everyone looks down on me?! and i say to the boys stop saying/doing it and their like 'we're just joking' and i know they dont mean that much harm and their only joking but also theres another boy and i think he might hav a issue or something. it started about two weeks ago and he would come up and grab my arse or hold he and be like all over me and were friends so i asked him to stop and he did but then latr he would like come back and do lap dences kind of and this is all in class *when the teacher wasnt looking* and i would continuesly ask him to stop but sam again. then the other day the boys who make fun of me got questioned by the teachers and told them wat was happening and that i was scared of this boy and told them what he was doing. i was a little annoyed at first that they didnt tell me they were going to tell but i forgave them. were all friends in a weird way but i dont understand why they will be nice and tell for me but then turn around and start joking about me and making me upset :( i dont know wat to do and i keep getting questioned at school by teachers and thast not helping i just get upset and annoed but i dont know y everything is just falling apart.

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OhMyLucyDarling answered Saturday May 8 2010, 12:40 pm:
The teachers are not there to annoy you, If they are questioning you then they are hoping that you will TALK to them. It is their job and that is what they are there for.


Grabbing your ass, After told a number of times to stop has become the spark of sexual harassment. TELL a teacher, If you don't then not only are you putting stress on yourself and will this continue going the way it is but over time it could get worse. When girls and boys make remarks about you at school you IGNORE it, If it gets too out of hand you tell the teacher. Who cares if people think you are being a snitch, Don't let them get away with it by thinking "Oh I can handle myself, I will just keep telling them to stop" It doesn't work that way. The reason's why the school boards have many issues with sexual harassment, bullying etc these days are because a lot PEOPLE DON'T REPORT IT. Tell the teacher and even your parents because someone needs to put these jerks in their place.

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