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i am the oldest but i am still the baby
Ok, like all of my friends are younger than me. They have all like had at least five boy friends kissed boys and even other stuff. I am the oldest and i always fel like the baby. I am like the goody good. and i most of the time find myself wanting to look up to them is that a bad thing... plus i have a chnce to tske it to the next level if i gowith the boy i was just telling you about. Oh, and he really isn't a player i think it is just because he would like onlybemy like second real official boyfriend so i don't know what to expect. plus his birthday is coming up and he is turning fifteen {i am twelve} i really wanna go but should i... i mean i am so gonna see my ex his cousin there please answer me asap
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well, when i was like thirteen (i'm 19 now), I had a similar problem. I went to an all girls school since I was in second grade. in seventh grade, all the girls in my class had guys, had been kissed, and had boyfriends. I didn't get my first kiss till i was 14... and when I did, I realized that it really didn't matter that i didn't have all those things when i was 12 or 13, because the kiss was perfect. I ended up dating him for two years. We broke up because he came out of the closet :/, but we stayed best friends because it was really nothing that the other person did. But, I can understand where you're coming from. I looked up to all those girls and thought that they had something I didn't, or that they were better-looking, or that I just wanted to be like them. But, I'm glad I wasn't because my relationships have been a lot more fulfilling.
About taking it to the next level with this guy... I don't know exactly what you mean by the next level? do you mean like get closer, hook up kinda thing? well, now that you tell me his age, i can see this a little bit better. not too many guys are players at 15. remember that girls mature faster than boys. there ARE players, but usually the player thing isn't during that age. it's usually younger. i think maybe he's just thinking he's hot or something and going through a phase.
So, your ex is his cousin?! wow, girl. that's pretty intense lol. be careful. If you want to go, it's up to you. I can't tell you whether or not you should go, but I can weigh the pros and cons for you. If you do decide to go, remember ex educate. Don't try to be like rubbing it in your ex's face because it's not classy. You just have to stand back and be a lady. Remember that it might be awkward to see him there. I don't know where you are with your ex. If your friends, then yea, it's a little more of a casual ambiance if you go. But, if your not really friends, then remember that there may be some tension. You have to do what your heart tells you. Just remember to be safe and be classy. You always want to be a lady. It will pay off. =)
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