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Ex gf, new girl, old and new drama
18, male. Me and my girlfriend of 10 months broke up about a month ago. Ever since, i'v been rebounding trying to get over her. Lately i'v been feeling better, and this weekend I had sex with another girl. But tonight I went and hung out with my ex. Things went perfect, and we both clearly miss each other and could without a doubt get back together after prom. Except, like I said, I had sex with someone else. Should I tell her, or just get back with her and live a lie? And if I tell her, how should I do it? =/ Thanks a lot to whoever can help me out here.
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If she asks, yes, otherwise, no way. It'll just destroy the relationship, because she won't be able to trust you. There are some things you should just keep to yourself, and what you did when you were single is one of those things.
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No. There's no need. If you tell her, it would only be to ease your own guilt, and that's selfish. Honestly, how would it help her? do you really think it would make her feel good? Trust you more? No, it would only serve to make her feel insecure and maybe even betrayed. Don't be selfish. Keep it to yourself and forgive yourself. You were not dating. You were hurt and trying to move on. You are not living a lie. You are just not telling her something that would hurt her that really had nothing to do with her. Because you care for he. Please do you and your girl a favor and just forget all about this.
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What you do with other people is none her business. Unless you have feelings for that other girl i would just keep it to yourself. If you like you Ex still definitely tell her how you feel. I hope i helped.
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