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worst situation ever
This is the longest story but to make it short..my boyfriend (well ex) broke up with me because he felt like he didnt like me as much as when we first started going out.But him and all his friends told me i was the first girl he's ever talked about and the first girl he's ever even had real feelings for and he told me himself that im the most amazing girl too but he's just confused about everything. He told me he wanted to become "best friends " with me ,which was pretty cool considering we broke up.We hungout all the time still,he walked me to class,we hungout alone once,etc.etc.everyone thought we were still dating ,except for the fact that we werent kissing and all that junk.Well,about 2 nights ago,i had people over for some drinks and to chill. He wanted to come over so i picked him and his brother up.My best friend kate,doesn't like him and she was with me.My ex bf doesn't like her either,and they always tell me they don't like eachother but i just had to deal with it. We obviously got drunk and throughout the night,i would see my ex bf being VERY flirty with kate.She wasn't doing much back but i was still very bothered.Later in the night,i actually walked in on him kissing her,on the ground.I was mortified.Yes they were really drunk,but that's no excuse.They know im upset with them and haven't spoken to either of them because that's just code to not hookup with your best friends ex boyfriend.(especially because i still have feelings for them). It was only a kiss ,but still! I know they both feel extremely guilty and I know they both care about me a lot because they both show it often but for some reason,they both haven't even apologized yet or said anything! I have a class with my ex and he didn't talk or look at me and i avoided kate all day! Everyone was talking about it throughout the day about how messed up it was and i was hearing they were both sad all day.And i know they both don't want to lose me because they told people that. but do you think they will apologize? I know if I committed this little crime,i'd be begging for forgiveness already. It's been almost 3 days and no apology... my ex bf broke his phone but still! and i won't dare say anything to either of them but i know for a fact they didn't do it to hurt me and I'm willing to forgive them because everyone makes mistakes...i dont know what to do!
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When people get drunk alcohol makes them not be in control of their actions & what their doing yes i
think they'll apologize at some point give it time be patient don't jump to conclusions you deserve a aplogy if they don't want to loose you like they told others then yes i think they'll apologize i don't think they did it to purposely hurt you it seems like it was one of those things that just happened so just wait it out until they both apologize to you but don't confront them just wait(:
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