Again you give amazing advice. So what if he's not talking to me because technically he's only talked to me one day (2 days ago) since our breakup (4 months ago). As i said i asked him to contact me after he thought it over. Say he doesn't contact me should i try contacting him again in a week or few weeks? I just don't want to seem like a crazy ex girlfriend lol. I don't want to overwelm him. I was his first serious gf the guy is even still a virgin (he is quite old fashioned. I'm probabl overwhelming you even though. It's just hard to get it off my mind.
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? Dazedandconfused2010 answered Monday April 19 2010, 8:13 am: Nope not overwhelming me. If you have his address send him a letter. Write out your feelings, try to stay positive. If he is old fashioned like you say, at this point he would probably be very intimidated sexually. Especially since you say he is a "late bloomer." he is probably very unsure of himself in that department and a bit weirded out about it. Whether he admits or not. You seem like you truly care about him, so I hope I can help. Don't overpressure him, or he may withdraw. He has to feel confident with you to be with you. He will struggle the most with your differences in experience levels. Very important, never share details. If it gets to that level he will place great value and meaning on it. He wants it to mean as much to you as it does to him. Patience will be the way with him . I wish o could help you with specific things to say. Feel free to ask me any question. I will answer honestly [ Dazedandconfused2010's advice column | Ask Dazedandconfused2010 A Question ]
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