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USMC girl
Hey. I really appreciated what you said. I'm not blonde by anymeans i know i messed up big time. He's just got my head in a loop i suppose. He even told me if i had just slept with someone and not left him he would have been able to forgive me for that because like he told me as humans its hard to not want the comfort of someones arms and the time i had to wait was a long on. YOu had said you were once in a similiar situation but you didnt go back to her. I realize as you said its hard to get past the images just thinking about it. What might have changed your mind to go back to her though? What do you think she could of said that would have made you know she was sincere and wanted to be with only you? I've told him every honest thing from my heart: that it wasnt worth loosing him; if he gave me the chance to prove myself i could prove i was sincere and faithful; that i still loved him. Then he asks me how he thought it would be if we got back together. Do you think thats a sign he still has feelings for me? I don't know how to get through to him to prove its all real and true.
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In all honesty I think he does still care about you, and at least at one point cared very deeply. If he is talking to you and it's friendly talk. He's almost directly telling you that he wants to be with you but he's going to have trust issues. I don't what could have changed it for me. But he may be feeling insecure, maybe the other guy was better at this or that, or something to that effect. Guys are simple creatures. Just boost his ego, and make him confident. I promise you it's more about him questioning himself than forgiving you. He already has if he is talking to you. He just has to feel sure that he's better than that other guy. There won't be alot that words will change, but try to get him to do someting with you go out to eat or whatever. If hesitates about it or says no at first don't get discouraged. Give it time and he will come around when he sees you aren't giving up
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