I have asked you about if this guy likes me the one who has the race car? Well last night I got drunk and I just wanted to stay with him just wanted someone to cuddle with he was like you want to stay or just need somewhere to go I said I wanna stay with you hes like let me shower and see whats up. So I text him back he was talkin to a buddy. He was like the place is a mess laugh out loud. And I said if you dont want me to come over just say no ive been told worse he was like I have tried gettin you over here before silly. Well he quit textin I got upset and got my dd to ride by his house. His truck wasnt even there. He does have a garage where he keps his car maybe he was changing is oil or something? I text him tonight what happened last night he never text back. What do you think is going on?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? Michele answered Monday April 19 2010, 7:39 pm: Well, saying the place is a mess and he doesn't want you to come over because he won't have a chance to clean it...that is like something a girl would say, and it is something she would say when she doesn't want to see someone, because it is more polite. And even though you said to just come clean and tell you the truth, some people just can't bring themselves to say what they think might hurt their feelings.
My guess is that he is still interested in you, but he already had plans, and most likely with a girl, but he didn't want to tell you because he wants to keep the chance that he has with you open. So he let you down easy. If I were you, I would stop calling him and texting him, and wait for him to contact you. Because then and ONLY then, are you sure that it is you he is interested in. Then say yes or no, but at least it will be you making the decision, or making an excuse. I hope this is clear. It really is the only way to stop the guessing. Wait for him to come to you, it won't be when you want him to, it won't be when you are ready. It will be when he is ready, and that will be the best time. Because then you will have his undivided attention. And don't drink when that happens, so you can be sure you understand everything, as well as how you are feeling.
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