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sex and pain
alright i am a little confused with my sexual appetite. i love pain in the bedroom like real pain. is that wrong? i am afraid that my boyfriend will not be able to handle the things i like but i do love him. how can i find out if he is into without freaking him out?
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There is absolutely nothing wrong with you. In fact, this is pretty common. As for talking about it with your boyfriend, you could try what I do with guys I date. Sit down and kind of playfully ask him what his fantasies are. From there, he'll probably ask about yours, and you can try to ease into it. Also, during the talk, you could try to ask him what his opinions are on a few different sexual things so that you'll know what he wants and what he is and isn't okay with, then throw in the pain thing and see how he responds. If he decides to try it, start off slow at first with a few minor things, like maybe him scratching you or gently biting, then if you're both still comfortable, take it a step further each time. Who knows, he may even like it, too. Good luck.
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