this is quite embarassing but i'd really like some advice. sooo usually when i go to the bathroom, and you wipe with toilet paper particles will sometimes stay in your vagina, right? or is this just me? haha..
anyways i'm worried when i let a guy finger me or do anything sexual there will be toilet paper bits stuck in there, and oh my goshhh how embarassing would that be! how can i prevent this from not happening? i've heard people use wipes or something .. is this true? but everytime i THINK i'm going to become sexual i have to use these wipes or what?
and if so .. what type of wipe is it. what are they called, where can you get them and if my mom sees me buying these will she automatically think i'm becoming sexual?
I wanted to add a caveat to advice about discussing things with your mother. At 18, you have the right to a life of your own, so what you decide to share with your parents is your call. In some situations, a parent is actually a poor source for counseling because they may not be objective or reasonable. Certainly seek the counsel of a trusted adult (doctor, counselor, for example) for anything health related. [ braytak's advice column | Ask braytak A Question ]
adviceman49 answered Thursday April 15 2010, 10:58 am: I found this website which has many straight forward answers to your question and others.
One thing they do not recommend is the use of any type of wipes. Look at "Deal with Menstrual odor".
One other thing: I do not think it is a good idea to hide things about your health, especially your reproductive health from your mother. Remember mom was once your age and has experienced everything, and I mean everything, you are experiencing. Mom is your best resource for information in navigating the many things you will be experiencing from this time forward.
As a man I can tell you boys have only one thing on their minds now. Mom having experienced this can best help you enjoy these times without feeling pressured. These years can be the best times of your life so let mom help you enjoy them. [ adviceman49's advice column | Ask adviceman49 A Question ]
advice_therapy_2010 answered Thursday April 15 2010, 3:13 am: the toilet paper thing can only really happen if your dry down there when you wipe.
i use the wipes an if you mom see's you buying them tell her there for when your on your period to prevent smell and bacteria thats what the wipes are originally for.
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