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are they hindering or helping?
i have a boyfriend that i have been seeing for about two months. we dated a long time ago and he really hurt me when we broke up. now my family is mad at him and wants nothing to do with him and tells me to do the same. are they just mad at him still or are they seeing something that i am not?
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Maybe give some free advice about: Families?
Maybe a little bit of both. You have to understand, your family love you more than anything in the world. Think of the person in your family who is the most important to you. Wouldn't you angry at the one person who hurt them? Would you want to see your family member with that person again? The truth is, its your life, and they can't tell you who to like and who not to like. But try not to be too hard on your family. They have your best interests at heart and they just don't want to see you get hurt again. And maybe they do see something you don't. It hard to look at a person that you are in love (like?) with objectively. So why don't you have a personal chat with someone you are close to in your family. Someone you can trust to be fair and kind. And ask that person why they don't like your boyfriend and why they think he is not good for you. Listen with an open heart. If anything they're saying is true, your gut will tell you. And if they just say they don't want you to be hurt, say thank you for looking out for you, but if you're willing to give him another chance, can they? Maybe they can't. Then you just have to respect that and they have to respect you. Good luck. I have a feeling you're going to find the answers to some pretty serious questions very soon. When those answers come, don't push them away if they're not the one's you're looking for. Good Luck!
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