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need serious help .... i love him
okk..there is a guy in my life but he is my bestest friends brother....i told him about my crush on her bro but she hates me for liking him...the other thing is that he is 7 yrs older to me..am 15...but i dont mind the age...its been since 4 yrs since i have been in a serious crush wd him...
now i am talknig to him through messages on facebook but suddenly he has deactivated his acct??i duuno wht to do..
help...i love himm..!! <3
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I agree with Michele, you are WAY too young. 7 years is a large difference when you are only 15. And it's 100% illegal too, so I'm sure he deactivated his account because he doesn't want to get in any trouble. If anything were to happen he could go to jail. It's okay to have a crush, but don't let it turn into an obsession. You're better off going after someone your own age, because to tell you the truth, I'm sure this guy isn't interested.
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HOney, I am sorry, but you are way to young for this guy. He is a young man, and he know that you are what they call "jail bait". Sorry, that is an old fashioned term, not used much today, but it is still true. He can get in serious trouble with the law if he seeks out a relationship with you. He is a man in the eyes of the law, you are a minor. Even if you consent, even if you chase him, even if you lie to him that you are older, (I know in this case you cannot because he knows you thru his sister) But even if you did all these things, and he gave in( because I am sure that you are attractive) HE could go to jail, and be branded as a sex offender for life. His parents would spend a fortune on lawyers defending him. For the rest of his life it would affect what jobs he could take, where he could live, and maybe even whether or not he could go to college.
Now these laws are waived when two 15 year olds get together. He would not be exempt. I implore you to leave this young man alone. Some day you too will be 18, and these things won't matter. Now they matter a lot.
Good luck dear
Michele
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