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still like my ex,but trying!
My bf broke up with me 2 weeks ago,it wasn't a bad break up at all and he just said he needed "space" and we still have hungout,talked,etc.For the last two weeks,we basically acted like we are just ffriends and nothing ever happend.Ofcourse, we flirt a little bit and I'm still crazy for him ,but I only talk to him if he talks to me first.He told me I was the most amazing girl ever ,and the coolest girl he's ever dated,but he just got "sick of me" so that ended our relationship. So,lately ive been giving him what he wants...SPACE.i wont text him ,i wont go up to him in school,i wont talk to him etc.unless he does to me first.We hungout a few times last weekend,but this weekend I did something different.Last night he texted me and asked me what im doing ,and he called my friend i was with because he knew we were all together,and i told him we were "going to this kids house to have our own little party" and i named the people there (all boys !) and didnt invite him to come... I'm hoping i did the right thing to maybe make him jealous or if im pushing him further away from me? Usually I would have dropped everything to go hangout with him,but last night i didnt! (obviously i wanted to haha) I just want him to miss me,but it's so hard since we have the same friends and i have a class with him.Help! I really want him back!
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One simple thing to say if it is ment to be then it will all work out in the end. Don push anything just let them have there natrual flow. I know this most likely is not what you want to hear but when I was in this situation that is what I had to do. theres a reason people in your past dont make it to your future.
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Well...first off, I just want to say. You can't force someone to love/like or I guess miss you.
Those feelings develope on their own...BUT! You are going on the right way of helping him develope them, by trying to make him jealouse, theres nothing wrong with trying to do that. And if he said all those things about you than maybe he does still have feelings for you but like he said he got "sick of you." Maybe you were spending too much time together, or maybe you were a bit too affectionate, I dated a guy who didn't like PDA, and well things didnt work out obviously. So what ever it was hard at first but I eventually moved on. He'll probably wonder what your doing with all those guys (nothing dirty) but like, he'd want to be there to see if your flirting or stuff. So if you want him back I'd say keep it up, and when you're hanging out in person, don't be so intrested in him. Look at other guys around, it'll make him jealouse for sure! Now keep in mind if his feelings vanished, well then it might not work. But I'm sure that's a risk you're willing to take and by all means good luck!
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