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Question Posted Tuesday April 6 2010, 7:57 pm

thank you soo much :D
its true her boyfriend is a waste of time , once he left his msn opened and she checked it and i girl replied saying bby i love you , then her boyfriend blame it on my boyfriend , it was embarassing but oh well :(
my boyfriend asked me out the other day and i just stay shut. i dont know what he wants from he, he is so weird ..he says that he misses me and wants to be with me . my friend told me to let him suffer .


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Lola answered Tuesday April 6 2010, 8:46 pm:
Nop, you shouldn't let him suffer, making him suffer means that you'll keep shut everytime he asks you out till you finally agree, and you stay shut means that there is a possibility that you might agree later on to go out with him, and then again you shouldn't give him that hope, cause you shouldn't go out with him ever again.

You should take a stand, and tell him no, tell him that you will never go out with him again, because what he did wasn't something little or just a random fight, he cheated on you, humiliated you, did not respect you or consider your feelings, and he doesn't love you. He just wants sex, and your leading him on. Tell him to leave you alone for good, and to not contact you again, and as much as it will probably hurt you to say that, and i know its hard on you, but its for the best, and one day, when you're with someone whose really worth it and treats you in the right respectable way, you'll look back and you'll feel so disgusted that you once loved someone like this and wasted your time with him.

If a person can cheat on you once, then he is able to cheat on you as many times later on, twice and thrice and much more, its simply some thing in a human's nature. And meaning that he cheated on you once, then he never loved you in the first place, and i know my words might hurt you to realize what i'm saying, but its all true, and i want the best for you, and usually cause you are the one in the situation, you are blinded by all the love you love for him, so you can't see the truth through it.

Take a stand. Let go of him for once and for all.Move on, meet someone new, love, experience more, get hurt, fall, and then get up again and move on, that's simply how life is, but if we keep stopping at every point, and if every time we fall we don't get up again, then we'll never get along or cope with life. Be strong.

And hey, do you have a name, and your age? so it would be easier for me when i advise you hehe

Hope i helped, please be free to contact me if you need anything else.Best of luck my darling :D

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