|
Is he diggin me?
Well there is a cute kid in my lunch break in school. I'm fifteen, as is he. Now, I walk in the back door from the east stairs and I have to walk by his lunch table to get to mine. When I walk in, he is already at his table with his food, I pack. I walk by his table trying not to be like creepy staring him down or anything and I glance at him and usually he's already looking and me. We'll hold the gaze until I'm behind him so he doesn't turn around. I think it's adorable, my heart melts when we look at each other because he has the prettiest blue eyes ever. Why does he keep looking at me? Is he diggin me? I mean, common sense says yes, if I look at him because I think he is cute, he looks at me because he thinks I'm cute, right? If he thinks I'm cute, what does that mean, does he want to get to know me? If that's the case, why doesn't he talk to me? He's far from shy so why isn't he doing anything about it? He has a lot of friends that could make my life miserable if I just walk up and talk to him like a moron, they'll humiliate me the rest of the year. Please, help! Thanks!
[ ]
Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category?
Maybe give some free advice about: Work/School Relationships?
Dear Is he diggin me,
I absolutely understand where you are coming from, as this has happened to me many times. I have been told it is because I can be intimidating. In other words, the guys who stare at me and don't approach me see something that tells them they can not get over on me easily. It says they are trying to figure me out because they know that average bull lines will not work. Sometime a male can tell this from watching the way you carry yourself, and you don't sound like a rah rah girl or you would've gone to holla at him already.
Now this is gonna be hard to hear, but trust me on this one. Leave him alone. If he hasn't approached you, it's because he has nothing good to offer and doesn't know how to lie to you about it in a way that you wouldn't figure him out. Or, it's possible that he has a girlfriend already that you haven't seen, but he still likes to look. Men do this to assist their fantasizing for when they're alone.
One more thing that's gonna be difficult to hear is this-males, especially in your age group, just want to get in your panties. They've recently learned about sex and how good it feels to them and want to experience it as much as possible. If he does approach you, trust and believe it's not because he's eager to meet your parents. He wants those panties off!
In conclusion, just leave him alone, glance at him if you will, but hold your head high knowing that you are a prize he can only fantasize about getting. There will be more men to come your way that are not afraid to behave like a gentlemen.
Take care,
DeeplySetting
]
More Questions: |