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soo now what?
thankyou for all that.
but what do i do now? i love the guy to death and clearly he doesnt love me as much ( or even at all probably ) becuase when we were talking the other day he told me he missed me but yet everytime i would text him after we broke up to tell him something or just ask him to talk to me i would get no answer. so if he did miss me and love me still and want me then he wouldnt of done that.
do you agree?
idk what to do. ive hooked up with other guys and talked to many. but somehow i always end of thinking about this guy. its sucks! becuase i know hes doing just fine without me.
what do i doooooo! its making me go crazy.
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i think that the thing that is making you go crazy is the fact that he is doing fine without you. every girl and guy wants their ex to be sitting at home crying their eyes out, realizing that they lost you and what a mistake it was and eating ice cream out of the carton while venting to all of their friends about how dumb they were for losing their ex.
... and thats not what hes doing and its killing you. but hun, if he has moved on, you need to also. just because he tells you he misses you, it may not be the way you think or WANT him to miss you. when people say they miss you, it could mean so many things. it could mean..
- he misses the person he thought you were.
- he misses the past but doesnt necessarily miss you in the present.
- he misses the relationship you guys had but is glad hes moving on.
- he misses you in general.
- he misses you but not enough to come back to you.
- he misses your friendship, but doesnt want to get your hopes up or give you the wrong idea.
.. and the list could go on. but whatever it is, at this point in time it is not that he misses you and wants to be in a relationship with you. im sure he misses you, but i dont think he wants to be with you they way you want to be with him. and i know that sucks so badly, but you have to put things in perspective and take a dose of reality ... even if its the cold, harsh, reality. and so i do agree with you to a point. i think he cares about you, but i dont think its the way or to the extent that he did before.
keep talking to other guys and possibly dating them or hooking up with them, whatever you feel is best at the moment, but you have to remember that yes, you will think about him for a while to come. thoughts of him and the feelings for him arent just going to dissapear, but thats why it helps to get to know other people. over time, I SWEAR to you, you will move on from him. for now, i think its best that you dont contact him unless he contacts you first. if youre going to move on and let him go, then you cant do it half-heartedly. youre going to think about it, ut thats only because you want him to talk to you and it drives you crazy. there are sooo many fish in the sea, you just have to go out there and swim.. hang out with your friends, keep having fun and soon enough, youll be free of any thoughts of him. you need to take your mind off of him so fill it up with other things and other boys.
good luck, hope i helped, you just need a lot of time, be patient :] all good things come with time. if you need anything else, feel free to inbox me again, xxo.
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