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i love allll your advice and i tell myself all the time to do what you say to do. and i agree with it, but somehow i always end up talking to him.
this morning before school i texted him and was like thanks for answering my call last night..
and he texted me back saying at friends house.
im like haha okk.
and hes like why are you freaking out
and im like whast are you talking about?
he never texted back so im like but yeah igotta go to schoool. id tell you to text me later but you never do when you say you will so yeah bye.
and i never got anything back.
and honestly. i never called him haha. i just wanted to see what he would say.
but why would he ask me why im freaking out? cleary i wasnt.
sooo whats up with him? and what do you think he is thinking
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wow, hahaa. what you did and said sounds EXACTLY what i do and saay. weird :] love it. and thank youu :]
but now, on to your questions..
he asked you why you were freakig out so he could use that against you. since he thought you were on the verge of starting a fight, and pointing out his flaws or what he always does wrong, he needed ammo to shoot right back at you. so thats whay he was just like, "why are you freaking out?" to make it seem like you were getting annoyed with him for no reason. its basically just a retaliation tactic. he was trying to make a point and without saying, "i didnt do anything." he said, "why are you freaking out." .. i hope that made sense :] hahaa.
and yes, you werent freaking out, which is good :] because now he just looks stupid for saying that to you. and hes probably just tired of you picking on him [but you have every right to because he seriously needs a wake up call] and he didnt answer you because he doesnt know what to say. you caught him and he probably knows that saying sorry isnt going to be enough to make you just forget that he doesnt talk to you or call you, so in his mind, the better approach is to ignore the problem. ALOT of boys hide from problems and they think by ignoring them that in a few days, theyll go away. but thats not the case. it just makes it worse. guys have major self esteem issues.. when they make mistakes and keep making them and people point it out alot to them, they start to lose their e-go and it becomes a burden for them and they just quit talking to the person and they quit trying. and us girls are always like, WHY DONT YOU TRYYYY ?! yuh know, and thats why they dont.. because they blame us for killing their confidence. boys are really sensitive and i believe that he is just thinking that he cant do anything right.
which is why you got no answer.
good luck ! hope i helped, and if you need anything else, you know how to reach me :] xxo.
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