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old cheating still hurting relationship
Hi there, so here is the thing my boyfriend and i have been together for three years now....but back at the begin of teh relationship i cheated on him....when we first got together he keep his space and sometimes didnt call me back or he would even say that he is coming over and not show...so i thought he was cheating on me so i found someone else. he found out not by me telling him but other ways.and still to this day it is making a problem in teh relationship. he wants me to prove that i love him (which i do love him) but i dont know how to do this.i have not cheated on him since the begin. he was more then just the easy i'm here with u still 3 yrs later to prove it. i have tattooed his name on me like he wanted thinking that would do it but it didnt. he want to u me hurting becuase of thie cheating and i am hurting that i hurt him like that but he doesnt see it.what can i do to prove to him that i love him alot??
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wow you tattooed his name on you and it still didnt work?well how can you be with someone if hes going to keep holding this above your head.it happenned three years ago and he needs to either forgive and forget or leave.i think you really need to talk to him.he needs to know that the more he pushed you away the higher the risk is for you to leave.not every relationship is perfect and people make mistakes.he can just have you and at the same time treat you like the person you were three years ago.he decided to stay with you which means he decided to forgive you which means he should move on.
to be honest the only way you can show that you love him is to stay with him.
let just unpick the situation for a moment.
he found out from someone else that you like another guy,you had been with another guy and touched another guy.he must feel all these emotions hes angry jealous envious he wasnt there for you maybe even blames himself.
so my advice is to worship the group he walks on,but before that you need to straighten things out tell him that you admit you cheated once,three years ago and everyone deserves another chance.tell him that your sick of trying and sick of yourself.tell him youv tried everything and so close to leaving.then you tell him your going to try one more thing and that is to make a promise to him to always love him and always be there for him.to never lie to him and never do what you did to him ever again.tell him you understand you hurt him and promise to never hurt him again.tell him thats all you have to give and if he can accept what happened and move on by taking this promise then really its not going to work out.
did this help?please let me know...im here for you
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