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tampons and sex?
im 18/f and basically i cant fit tampons in...it only goes up so far??? i dont know what i can do. plus me and my boyfriend tried to have sex and we couldnt because his penis wouldnt fit. is there anything that i can do to help loosen it? thanks
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best thing to do is four play! relax your muscles by him fingering you.
What I did with the tampon issue...I waited until I had sex a few times than used the tampon...I figure...If I can handle a penis I can handle a tampon.
There are some questions you should try to answer though...like is it just too tight or is there something that may be blocking it. Have you had a pap smear? cause if you have and they haven't said anything about it I am sure that isn't the issue. If you haven't had one you should and just tell them the situation. they definitely won't judge you.
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For the tampons, you might be tensing your muscles and that makes it 10 times harder. I had the same problem, and I thought it was because I was so "tight" down there or it was too small, but it will fit. What I did and what I would suggest to you, is to sit down on the toilet, and use a small mirror. If you have a mirror that can stand by itself and put it on the toilet seat so you can see alllllllll the way in. Try putting the tampon in then, so you can clearly see where its going and remember to relax and not stress over it.
With the boyfriend/sex issue, you probably were a tad dry down there or maybe he wasn't hard enough.. try lots of foreplay (fingering, fooling aroud, making out) and make sure you are both turned on, and then try having sex.
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K with tampons, I know it hurts but you just gotta shove them in. As for sex, have him finger you more or use a nice warming lube. That will make sure the job gets done ;)
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