Char-Boo answered Wednesday March 10 2010, 7:27 pm: Sex actually hurts the first couple of times that the penis is going in but after about 5 minutes it starts to feel GREAAT.!! Kind of like a massage but always make sure that if you are goiing to have sex please use a condom always remember SAFE SEX iS GREAT SEX.!! =] [ Char-Boo's advice column | Ask Char-Boo A Question ]
thelaura answered Wednesday March 10 2010, 6:19 pm: Depends on a few things..
For example:
When you are 100% ready
When you feel like doing it
Who you're doing it with
How experienced you are
etc.
but let me tell you, it feels great when you do it with someone you love and trust.. and when you know what works for each other. It's hard to explain (plus being graphic on here isn't allowed!) so until you experience it with someone you love, trust and when you're ready, you won't understand.
It goes beyond making each other physically feel good - there's so many emotions and chemistry racing around mentally, too. :) [ thelaura's advice column | Ask thelaura A Question ]
illusionsaregrander answered Wednesday March 10 2010, 5:55 pm: Well, it is very hard for anyone to tell you what sex is like because sex is very different each time you do it, and it really depends a lot on who you do it with.
If you have ever masturbated, sex is kinda like that, only better, with someone who is skilled and with whom you have a good emotional connection and good communication.
If you are with someone who is unskilled or with whom you do not have a good connection emotionally and verbally, it can be a miserable experience. It can be uncomfortable, and unsatisfying, and embarrassing, and risky. (You can contract disease or become pregnant if you do not use precautions)
Even if you are in a long term relationship with someone you love, and who loves you too, sex is different each time to some degree, however. Sometimes it is just so-so, and sometimes it is great. Sometimes, it even feels like a chore, if you are tired and your partner wants to get frisky.
The best thing for someone in your position to do is to get protection, and have it on hand, "just in case." Then, just wait. Wait until you meet someone that you want to share yourself with. Sex is a lot more intimate than masturbation. And, it is a lot more emotional. Wait until you are in a relationship with someone you can really trust, and whom you know really well. And wait until you are in love, and are sure that you are loved too.
DONT have sex out of curiosity. Or because other people want you to, or because you think it is "time." Sex for the first time without love is not very satisfying. And, if you also fail to use protection, it can bring a long string of consequences, including STDs, pregnancy, gossip in school, a broken heart, etc.
Mind you I am not telling you you should wait til marriage. Thats your own personal choice. But I would wait for love. You are going to remember your first time for the rest of your life, and it is likely to be a better memory if you love the person you share it with. [ illusionsaregrander's advice column | Ask illusionsaregrander A Question ]
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