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my bestfriend/boyfriend
So the other day i was having people over my house to chill and drink a little. It was my bestfriend,my boyfriend and his brothers and another friend of mine.I got really tired so i went up to my room and fell asleep and they all continued to chill downstairs. Yesterday,my boyfriends brother told me something went on.My boyfriend finally told me that he and my best friend were so drunk were sitting all over his lap and she was trying to get him to touch her boobs and rubbing each others legs and shit and flirting etc.I was pretty mad. He cried to me and told me to forgive him and said he loves me and etc. etc.and he felt so guilty and he told me because he cares about me blah blah.I told him i wasnt gonna break up with him because they didn't kiss and i realize accidents happen and second chances are worth it...but my best friend hasn't said a word about it to me and thinks i don't know,which is pretty horrible on her part. My boyfriend told me he'd never talk to her,look at her,etc again..but he told me to let this time go and reduce drama. what should i do? she has done this to me two times previous ! and ive kept her..maybe im the dumb one.
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well...i have a similar situation except its my bestfriend and her boyfriend and i knew hom long before her and she gets mad when i flirt with him.( yes i do like him) anyways you should forgive and forget if you and your bestfriend are in a fight it helps to not talk to them until she talks to you first. every time my bestfriend gets mad at me about stuff like that i let her come to me when she is ready. if youn really like this guy then you should continue to date him and forget about your bestfriend until she comes crawling back to you.
tell me how everything goes in the end.
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You are letting your so called "best friend" walk all over you. This is the THIRD time she's put the moves on your man? Sit down and actually think to yourself: what are you getting out of this relationship that you are willing to put up with that? It sounds like you need to dump that girl and find another friend. Your boyfriend says "let it go" but he has a vested interest in saying that, seeing as how he is just as guilty as she is.
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I think you should forgive both your best friend
and boyfriend since they were both drunk alcohol
makes you not be in control of your actions and what your doing if your boyfriend said he loves you and that he'd never talk or look at her again then i think you should believe him i don't think he'd purposely try and hurt you everybody makes mistakes & they aren't perfect make it clear to your best friend that she's not to go near your boyfriend seeing as your dating him & she's not that way she'll take you seriously
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you're not dumb, you just look for the best in people. i'd say give the boyfriend a second chance, dumb the friend. one time is a mistake, 2 times is a pattern, 3 times is a bad friend.
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