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Is he into me?
hey i am a 19/f i've posted many questions about this guy in my art appreciation class. we barely talk. in class once i asked him how he was going to do his collage and he said he doesn't know because he has to sit down and plan it out. he didn't say anything else so i didn't either, because i didn't want to annoy him. but like i've noticed outside of class we talk like on facebook if he has a question about art appreciation, or if i do. and i've noticed whenever he sees me outside of class he always smiles at me. i mean ALWAYS! in class though he's usually quiet except for that one day we were in groups, and he seemed to be taking charge of the group by giving suggestions of what we should do. which surprised me since he barely ever talks. how come he was trying to take charge suddenly? and i noticed like when i went to the bathroom and came back he aid that he took my review without asking me lol. and then when i asked him what something meant i was texting someone (my therapist) he told me what it meant and then he was like well aren't u going to write it down? which i thought was a little rude because of the way he said it. maybe it wasn't but i don't know. but im not sure if he's into me. Every time we leave class i always want to talk to him but he usually goes down the stairs and i take the elevator. so i don't really see him, but im not sure if i should take the stairs too because he;ll think im following him won't he? i don't know what to do & im really confused! help!!
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male perspective: he smiles at you because he is happy to see you. I can guarantee you he has not done anywhere near the amount of mental gymnastics you have.
He sees you as a valued classmate at the least. If you want to talk to him, go up to him and talk to him (i know, shocking), drop a note as you walk by him in class asking him to grab a coffee together after class, or yes, take the stairs and say hi that way.
Guys are simple. he might have no clue you like him that way (fair chance) or he has a clue and is too shy (also fair chance). there is only one way you are going to find out....talk to him.
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hey there,
okay it seems to me your over anaylising this guys actions too much.
by constantly overthinking the consequences of if you did this or that your honestly never going to get anywhere!
of course hes not going to think your following him :) anyone can take the stairs right?
I honestly think you just need to relax and strike up conversation with this guy? :)
i mean whats the harm its surely going to be easier then torturing yourself trying to figure out if hes in to without actually talking or flirting if you get me?
I know its scary but you need to put yourself out there youl never know otherwise what you could be missing out on :)
even if it doesnt work out how you want you will still have made a great friend? =]
seriously just talk to him more im sure you wont regret it!
Hope this helps
much <3
Jess
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