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left for the ex?
so my gf started actin really weird when her ex's girl was comming over to see her and her son....she told me there wasnt no one but yes to feeling she was sorry. I went to get my stuff hopin if i took it away it would help her think more...but she rushed me outa the apt cuz her ex pulled in when i was walking out. she tells her roomate i kno i fucked up dont keep rubbing it in. she says she couldnt have sex with her and her roomate said you can tell she hasnt slept and she mopes around and looks like shes been crying. i rode there over the weekend and her exs car was there. if she regrets it why was she there? i tried to talk to her today and she wouldnt talk to me. i kno im stupid for wanting her back i wouldnt jump back into it it would be awhile but whats going on?
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Maybe it isnt that she doesnt care about you. Maybe she does, but she got involved with you before she was really completely finished with her ex.
What you should do is just back off. I would tell her how I felt, but I would also tell her that I didnt want to talk at all about the possibility of getting back together until she was completely finished with the ex. If you are able to emotionally, I would move into a "friend" relationship with her for now. If your feelings are too hurt, and you love her too much, I would just tell her that until her heart is free to be given, she needs to stay away from you.
It could be that she really was just using you. But its also very possible that you two could have had a future if she had been over the ex when you met. She needs time to get over the ex, and you need time to see what kind of person she really is so that you dont get your heart broken again.
If you really care about the girl, and you have the strength to do so, give her and yourself that time. If you dont feel you can do that, there is nothing wrong with just walking away at this point, and chalking it up to experience.
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Honestly,
It sounds like she used you as a fall back, Either that or she is having regrets about leaving her ex. I mean it seems pretty obvious by the way she was acting, I wouldn't stand for that. Instead of trying to get her back realize that she isn't worth it and move on. Hey you know what though, If her and her ex didn't work out once well then I can almost promise you it won't work out the second time. That doesn't mean keep trying to get her back, That means learn that she isn't worth your time and find someone else who will want to be with you and only you with no regrets.
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