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A cry for help??
Hey you guys..here's the thing,I need sum advice and I need it fast.It seems like my life as been shattered in just about every catagory..friendships,relationships,family,ect. I just don't know what to do about anything anymore.nothings going rite and I feel like it's all my fault. I try to be a picture perfect girl but it seems like I can't never be happy. My boyfriend of a year now broke my heart.. My friends live for drama and if I dont break from my parents house soom imma scream. You guys I really need sum life advice because what do you do when your clueless????
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Nobody is perfect & that includes you we all make mistakes & are all human don't try & be perfect because you'll never be things weren't meant to be
between you and your ex boyfriend everything happens for a reason you can't change the fact that he broke up with you what's done is done it is what it is yes it may hurt now seeing as it just happened but evenually the hurt your feeling will fade away and you'll move on if your friends live for drama then don't hangout with them find new friends to hang with if the drama doesn't involve you then try to ignore it it's probably pointless drama anyways one way you can get away from your parents house is by getting your license with that you'll be able to go where you want & you'll have more freedom another is to volunteer somewhere or if you'd rather get paid try looking for a job in your area you could move out if your old enough & legal to do so but if your not then look into those suggestions(:
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Okay, it goes without saying that if you are feeling suicidal, call 911.
If you are here to get some direction, don't feel bad about that. This is exactly what we are here for, to support and help each other.
Get out an old fashioned piece of paper. Draw a line down the center and write two columns, call them anything you like (good, bad, pros, cons, happy, sad)
Make sure that for EVERY negative your write down, you FIND a positive. I don't care how hard you have to scrape the bowl, the point of this exercise it to have a foundation to build on for making your "good" column grow and grow.
Some "gimme" positives you can use are "have food" have clothes, have transportation, have health, most of my teeth... whatever you need to put a positive spin on at least one thing for each of your negatives.
You are probably depressed. Is it something you can work your way out of alone is yet to be seen. Don't be afraid to go for help. Depression mixed with current events makes recovery a more difficult proposition all alone. Tell me how old you are, and a little about your living situation, you mentioned getting away from your parent's house. Let's chat.
Dear Susie
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