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fingering - y dont i like it?
Hi-
So, i have not been fingered that many times (like 3, and it was barely- like the boys who did it did not really no what they were doing) but the other night i got fingered by an older guy who knew what he was doing. he fingered me SO HARD all over my vaginia and in the period hole. like literally jabbing the hole with his fingeres.
HOWEVER-
it did not feel good whatsoever. it never does. it just really hurts like really really hurts. and i hate it.
my hymen is still intact, im a virgin but my friends who r just like me claim it feels AAAMMMAAZZZINNG.
how do i fix my problem?
y doesnt it feel good for me!
i kind of feel like im not a sexual person.
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No wonder it doesn't feel good, just jamming his finger in there doesnt do anything. You need to be into start my making out, then stimulating your clitoris, then slowly move to fingering. You gotta heat the oven before you put the turkey in, yes stupid phrase but true. Lubricant is also a very good idea, this way there is no friction which can cause lots of discomfort. Keeping the nails short is also a good idea, that way you don't get an cuts or abrasions during it.
Everyone is different, some girls simply do not like being fingered, I know lots of them. Just like some girls do not like getting eaten out, its all your preference so don't listen to your friends.
Let your guy know what you like & what you don't like, it needs to be pleasurably for the both of you, not just him.
Hope I Helped. :)
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If a guy jams his finger down there of course it is not going to feel good. For one, It helps if the guys nails are clipped down. That will prevent any cutting and uncomfortableness for you. Two, It helps to focus on the clitoris area after all that is what usually causes the orgasms. It also wouldn't hurt to buy some lubricant if you are under 18 and can't enter a sex store well they sell it at places like Walmart or drug stores in the pharmacy department.
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