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is it right to like both of them ?
14-f
so in my class at school there are these 2 boys an were really good mates. and latley i have started to like them as more than a friend uf you know what i mean. but is it right to like both of them ?
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Keep it in perspective too. Everyone likes the confidence of being liked exclusively, so pick one that you like more, is more likely to return your feelings, and push a little harder with him to have a few private moments to talk in person. Talk about "nothing" but just get the "time" in with him so that he sees you are intersted.
Back to your question, yes it is expected that you should like more than one person at a time. Even after you are married, you will be "seeing others arond you", married but not dead I like to say to keep it in perspective. Its human nature to be interested in others and the way their attention makes us feel about ourselves. It is what we do with those feelings, or action, or inaction, when appropriate, that make the full measure of your moral character.
This is the time to practice, the whole point in dating is to get good at it and learn about yourself. Go for it, try not to hurt anyone in the process!
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Dear Susie
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It is perfectly okay to like more than one person when you are single. Just don't: flirt with both of them at the same time, tell both of them that you have feelings for them, or try to date them both.
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