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hand job gone wrong

Question Posted Monday February 22 2010, 11:22 pm


ive been dating a guy for about 5 months and we fool around sometimes like fingering and me giving him a hand job. well he texted me the other night saying that in the shower he saw nail marks and it was scabbed over. i was shocked because i didnt scratch him while i was playing with his thing so i dont know how it got there. can you give me any hints why that would happen and how?

and he also plays with my boobs but recently it gets rough and i end up with bruises, is that alright? can he still fool around with them or not?

any advice would be helpful

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Sageadvisor answered Tuesday February 23 2010, 1:18 pm:
It sounds like you guys are being just a little too rough with each other! Make out with the lights on - see what you're doing to him and vice versa. If your hand is too dry and you're going too fast or squeezing too hard, that could do it. Slow down, lube up (spit, pre-cum, astroglide, whatever) and watch that you're not rubbing the skin raw. As for him, he just needs to lighten up, again, watch what he's doing, involve his tongue as well as his hands. Assuming no one's intentionally trying to be rough here, you'll work it out. You're probably both just nervous.

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Marcusooh answered Tuesday February 23 2010, 10:54 am:
Bruises and scratches will heal in few days,is no big deal.for me I think when you were playing with his "thing"you may have accidently scratched his thing,but you cant see the scratches yet,but after a short time the scratches will turned up,if u don beleive,try scratching urself,you cant see anything but a while later you can see red marks on the place where you scratched!!!

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