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I got busted..
Hi, im a female 18. I would appreciate any advice you can give me. Today i just went on a date with this guy I know. And my mother doesnt really let me go out on my own, at all. So i told her i was going to go to this gathering that was supposed to go on that day. But really i went to meet with my boyfriend for some dinner. It was our first date with him. He bought me flowers and some stuff. Anyway when when i came home my mother was like where the hell did you go, i went to that place and you werent there then it was over. Where the hell did you get those flowers from. I said they had them at the meeting. She was like your a lier why dont you just say you went on a date with some bastard. I was like no no no i did go there. She starts crying a little and im like oh crap why did she have to stalk me. Then it was getting too much so i just went to my room. So then she's like fine i'm not going to tell you where i'm going or when i'll be back from now on either. As a matter of fact im leaving now. I was like sorry you feel that way you know. Anyways still waiting to see what happens. What should I do... any advice... please help. Thank you in advance.
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I think you should give your mother some space seeing as she's upset then once you feel ready confront her and say you'd like to be trusted explain to her that your legal and no longer a minor your able to take care of yourself while your out alone and reassure her you'll make the right decisions and be responsible tell her you'd like more freedom apologize for lieing say you made a mistake and that you should of told her the truth from the start and you'd like it if she accepted your apology also apologize for making her cry and upset it would be nice to add that you'll tell her the truth about where you'll be going from now on that way you'll gain her trust back again(:
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