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my ex
my ex boyfriend has moved out of state and we havent talk for a min now but we had contacted each other and now he wants me to go visit him in nyc what u think i should do
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This is a tough question to answer since you did not give your age. If you are over 18 and out of High School it becomes a problem of self-examination as to how you feel about his sudden request that you come and visit. What is the reason behind his request? Is he horny and looking for what he feels is a guaranteed roll in the hay? These are questions you need to answer for yourself then you can decide if you want to make the trip.
Once you have your answer if that answer is yes; can you afford the trip? Air fare is not cheap, car, bus and train travel can be quite lengthy as well as costly. Who is going to pay for the trip, the food and where are you going to stay?
Now if you and your boyfriend are under 18 this brings up something altogether different. That is you cannot travel to meet your boyfriend without parental permission. Sorry but there are some laws here that could get you boyfriend in a great deal of trouble if he is over 18. If he is over 18 and if there is more than 3 years age difference between you there is even more trouble he can be in even if there is no sex activity involved.
If you’re both under 18 and both living with parents then his parents and your parents are going to need to talk. That is just common courtesy, their son is inviting you into their home I’m sure your parents will want to make sure his parents are going to be home and are not only aware of his invitation but agreeable to it.
As I said with the little information you supplied there is no way I can make a suggestion on what answer you should give your boyfriend. Instead I supplied the questions I feel you need to ask yourself or what you must do if you decide to make the trip depending on your age. Hopefully this will help you with finding an answer to your question.
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