so i have dated this guy for 2 years on and off. and in august we broke up and 2 weeks later he started dating this other girl.. my feelings for him never went away. i even tried dating other men and now its february and i miss him soo much that its getting to the point that it hurts and i can't focus in my studies.. and i have gotten signs from him that he misses me somewhat too, but he is crazy about his girlfriend.. i want to tel him how i feel, but i dont want his girlfriend finding out, considering were friends...i've been praying for a miracle and i want everything to just fall into place. his new girlfriend makes him so unhappy and he was a way happier person when i was with him.. how do i let him know how i feel? what should i do? its been 7 months of being patient and i can't take it anymore. i miss him so much it legitimately hurts. ):
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? lovealways1221 answered Tuesday February 16 2010, 7:28 pm: spill everything out to him. just ask him one day "can we talk? not like for 10 minutes. longer than that. its serious" and then just tell him EVERYTHING that's on your mind. don't hold anything back. I hate when I talk with someone and then after they leave I think "i should have said this. or i should have said that". i hate when i do that. so just spill everything out.
then let him spill everything out ask him how he feels about this. then the rest is just fate. You guys just need to talk and sort it through. nobody on here, or nobody in the world, can tell you what to say or do. You gotta figure that out.
just let the chips fall into place and let it be fate. if you guys end up fighting and screaming, then it wasn't meant to be. but if you guys become friends again or even get back together, then it was mean't to be.
Sweet_LiL_Angel answered Tuesday February 16 2010, 10:55 am: I really think you need to find away of moving on. I have been in your situation although mine was a little worse I have a child with the man i was in love with. he cheated on me we were on and off for such a long time and i even moved to a totally different state started dating someone new and still wanted him back. but im finally married after 4 years later from meeting my first love and we hate each other now im fine with that but its a good feeling to find some new who i dont fight with were its not on a off and trust me its hard but if you sit there and wait for him its never going to get easy hun. and you dont have to jump into another relationship talk to different guys get to know them before getting in a relationship you might find that one who takes your breath away. [ Sweet_LiL_Angel's advice column | Ask Sweet_LiL_Angel A Question ]
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