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I don't know if I am going to the right Path
Okay. I been dating this guy for 5 months. he is very nice and sweet and he 28 and I am his Frist Relationship and frist gf. he only date maybe 2 girls in his life but not like now. anyway we have good time and we share Interresed and we get alonge great. but there one thing he very very into is Relgion. I don't find anything wrong with that. I am a beliver and I belive in god and I am a christain. but thing is him and his familly are littel more Raditcal about Relgion. thing is like they have i think his sister's Husband have a family build there own church and they read the bible there self and that he don't belive in christmass and becouse it jesus bday and he always want talk to people about Relgion and even kids. if there 10 year old or something. He think it wrong somone not want to talk about it. i mean i don't mind but i seem very Keep it to my self becouse i know i feel it between me and god. sometimes I am more thought ful and bigger heart and more look in god eyes and see things and more compassion. other thing he talk more about his self and dreams like building his own house and finding place llive. he still live with his parent they live in a simple livng like little cabin like. it nice really. but it hard too. becouse his father very Radtical he say thing just becouse people are saved are not saved. thign is i am not big on relgion becouse i don't like judge people and i don't like to Disscuss it. I talk to my self everyday and i know god hear me and even know what iam doing before i am doing it. another thing is that sometimes i live my parents to i don't drive. he pick me up we go mall or see a movie and hang out pretty much it. he in school and learning job training to get a job. o and he say that one of his sister's husband and his borther and older lady aunt of his not my bf his sister husband and she read out of the bible, i know it not wrong i just saying i think i feel like I don't know what patach i am on. becouse thing is i seem look at a more simple life and really let god lead me where he want me to go. thing is we were set up by couploe friends andi was ruch in having a bf and he was rush in to find somone. i don't really know how i am feeling these days. i try really hard think what i really want todo. i am hard of hearing and i teach little boy sign lanuage and i am artist i like being creative. i really haivng hard time figureing out what i really want to do in life i know i don't have follow his dream becouse it seem like he don't seem realize that i have a dream to.
ps sorry if don't make any sence i am try to just writ out how i feel.
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I have been in a relationship with someone who is a little over the top on his religion as well and trust me if he is a heavy believer then that is just how it is and how it is going to be. Personally, I couldn't deal with it so I left the relationship and it was 5 years that I have tried and tried to bond to his beliefs. You need to ask yourself are you okay with him talking about his religion 24.7...are you able to follow his religious ways? Personally, I don't mind people who believe in god but if someone talked about it and was a heavy believer after awhile I would get a tad bit irritated hearing about it all the time. This is about you and what YOU want out of the relationship but remember if you don't think you are really capable of dealing with his ways then it might be best to be friends or leave the relationship because heavy believers don't change for nobody and if anything they just get more into themselves.
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