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being confused
Hi i am confused torn and stuck in the middle, i am married to an american and am british i now reside in usa with hubby whom i love very much but all my family and kids and grandkids live in uk, i have a step daughter here she has a son, but i am finding it so hard now to be away from my family i miss them so much but i love my hubby loads as well, but my heart is torn i want to be here and over there,we only see his daughter and son about once a week even though they only live over the road but we never have her son because he only likes being with his mum or dad they spoil him a lot, i have been here just over four years and do not have one friend, i find it hard to make friends anyway but here harder, perhaps it me, but my head is so much in a whirl i cant afford to visit very much if i am lucky once a year but not enough my hubby wont move to england because he said no job there, i do not know there is so much going through my head i cant sleep cant consetrate no more i do talk to my husband he says he understands but he dont he has his daughter and grandson here i miss mine so much i feel they wont know me one i will just be the nana that lives abroad, beside leaving my hubby i do not know what to do very confused
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Go be with your family, if it means that much to you then he should stand beside you no matter what. He will find work. He's not over there to look so how can he say for sure? The medical field is BOOMING! Any certifaction can get him a job anywhere! Plus they have free health care don't they? When there's a will there's a way. To ease the pain, maybe a web cam so you can see and talk to them. Its not the awnser but it could help. You sound like you are a very family orientated person and that's a good thing! Sit him down and have a serious heart to heart. Let him know that this is extremly important, after all your husband should be friend of friends in this type of situation. God bless.
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