Well today I had sex with my gf and before I start off, this isn't the first time this happens to me.
Sometimes my penis grows weak while we are having sex. This does not happen during the first time we have sex, but when I want to go again after about 10 minutes it will get hard,but then weaken during the sex itself. I really can't explain it any better, and sex with a weak penis is no good.
I want to make my girlfriend get to the climax, and now i'm getting really desperate, as if i'm not good enough to make her feel good.
It could also be nerves or psychological. You need to rule out a physical problem causing you unable to maintain an erection for sexual intercourse. You need to consult an urologist.
In the meantime, if you consult any adult novelty store, condom store etc you can get a plastic ring designed to keep blood in the penis and prolong an erection. Just ask someone at the store about a ring for that. They have a real vulgar name for them that I can't repeat here but they actually do work and if it helps you... well, it's a good thing. [ solidadvice4teens's advice column | Ask solidadvice4teens A Question ]
BrennaSpeidel answered Monday February 8 2010, 9:34 pm: You have got to make sure she gets off first. There are many ways to do this. Oral sex, a hand job, ect. Be creative and experiment. Once she gets off go for your first. Once that happens and ou are both ready and going for seconds go hard and fast have her ride you and help her by grabing her hips and pulling with each thrust. Their are also products that will desenitize and allow you to go longer pefor cumming, just make sure you don't desensitize her too. Their are also cock rings that will keep you hard until you take it off. P.s. Make sure to lube well. [ BrennaSpeidel's advice column | Ask BrennaSpeidel A Question ]
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