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Friendship Triangle
Hey, 15/f
Sorry if this is long.
Ok, so yesterday in maths i was talking with my bestfriend lets call him Martin*. So me and Martin were talking about one of my other "friends". I wouldn't really call her a real friend because in year 8 she turned against me, basically stole all my friends and abused me whenever she could through msn and everything.She still bullies me but i just try to ignore her. Anyways me and Martin were talking about her and he was telling me how nice she was etc. i was gob-smacked i couldn't believe he thought she was actually nice, after everything she put me through. I should also let you know that i really like martin (more than a friend) so hearing him say this really hurt me. We bacially fought all through lunch, he said that just because i hated her didn't mean he had too and that he had a mind of his own. I said that if he was my friend he would have been aware of what she had done to me, i haven't talked to him all day and i want to but i want him to understand why i got so upset.
My question is was I in the wrong to get angry and upset with him and should i apologise to him?
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I know exactly how your feeling. But, the best thing to do would to just let him find out how mean she is himself. Now I know thats not what you want to hear, but its the truth & sometimes we just have to face it.
So, just tell him that he CAN have a mind of his own, but not to bring her up when you guys are hanging out.
Hope all goes well! :)
-cjd
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after what she did you have the right to feel angry and upset...but you should let him experience her properly...i do think you should apologise to him..let him see for his self her true colours because it sounds to me tht shes being fake towards him...he will more than likely come back to you in a few weeks and say hey you were right and apologise to you for warning him. x
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