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What would you do in this situation?
I like this girl that already has a boyfriend, or so i think. i really like her and we know each other a little bit, and by a little bit, i mean we know each other's names and we had one conversation. She is a grade lower than i am and to me she seems way out of my league. We were hosts for a play for our school and we were partners. the problem is i don't know if she is interested and i don't know how to make a great impression. what do you recommend. I am sort of an outcast, in other words, i don't really socialize out my group. i would like a girl's opinion, but i am glad to listen to anyone. if you need anymore details just ask. thanks for you help. and yes i'm a guy, sorry for the confusion. i thought that if i had a girl's profile name, i could get girl's to ask me for advice,so that they would take my advice and not just ignore it.
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try to tell her she looks nice and in her locker just write sweet little notes signed by a nickname and each day give her a hint on who it is in your note then a while later sign your name, its flirty and she wont judge u because she wont know its you dress up nice for example collared shirt not tucked in but left unbuckled and a nice pair of jeans, and nice sneakers. do nice things for her, carry her books help her in a subject she does not understand and stick up for her, I hope I helped
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Everyone looks for validation of their feelings, and of their being. If you want to get her attention, well, you do have to talk to her. Pay her some compliments. You can start with simple things like, I like your jacket, or that scarf looks nice on you. And smile. Look her in the eye. This is going to make her more friendly and more open to talking to you. Now it would be good to start complementing her accomplishment. "Hey, I heard you 'aced" that exam in history!" You know what I mean. And again, you could say I wish I had, or I got a lousy grade. Something like that. Then another thing, if you see or hear her say tell some a**hole off, or hear about it, make sure you seek her out and tell her you think it was great that she did that.
She will begin to think that you are one of the few people in the world he understands her. She is going to be very comfortable being around you, and will seek out your company. This is important, because even though you think she is great, and has "everything" almost every young person feels that they are lacking something. But your total acceptance of her, her idea of herself, (her identity) and praising her accomplishments, will help to validate her feelings of herself, and her acceptance of you as a good friend. Then you'll have to take it from there to the next level.
Good luck to you.
No I am not 17, but I certainly remember what it was like to be there.
- Michele
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